Do I love to hate love or do I hate to love hate?

I'm wondering how many people have experienced what I am going through right now, but I'm quite confused nowadays: I hate working for my PhD but I love to be a doctor; I hate to work in industry but I love to eventually become a manager in a company; I hate academic jobs but I love to teach and be called Dr. Dahi all the time; I hate to go back to Iran for a visit right now but I can't wait to see my family in a month; I hate most Southerners for voting for Bush but I love the South; I hate the North but I love to have more Northerner friends; I hate to write everyday but I love to have my own weblog; I hate the fact that most people mispronounce my name but I love to be called by name several times a day because it makes me feel important; ...

... and in the end, I hate to see you wasting your time but I love to see some comments!